Zipped

 

                                

Each person is distinctive in nature with other. The mi nute thing that makes them

Distinct is the way they express. Being expressive is always considered to be

Pivotal.  Expressivness makes you visible in a world. There are many careers that

People often suggests to them like Lawyers, politicians. Basically who can play

Forefront. But being zipped – means inexpressive doesn’t makes you less worthy.   

It Means you have many things in your mind that you restore for the perfect time

to Get it displayed. There are hundreds of examples of introvert or zipped person

Who did extraordinary in their life. Because they waited for the right moment.

Most important these people have huge patience within, that in today’s world most

of Us lack. Today everyone wants everything in short span. Whether its being rich,

Successful. It is well said “ One who is quiet in nature doesn’t mean they don’t

have answers. It means they are giving you chance to speak up.

But being not so vocal often had its disadvantages. You will always be

Misunderstood because you don’t come up with explanations. There are many

Practical examples that I am sure everyone would have come across. When we

used to be in school, Students were categorized into two parts. One is

Front benchers (teachers favourite) and second category back benchers. But when

We look back to them. The so called back benchers did extraordinary . They all

Did extremely well. The one reason is, despite being judged by peers or

Teachers they had a positive outlook in life that they never out casted. There

Visions were amazing that was not understood by a common mind.

So, Guys today my writing was for all the people most importantly students.

Never get yourself demoralized by the judgement made by others.

You are a genius mind that is not understood by everyone. Keep yourself motivated

And rise as high as you could.

 

Rahma Kazmi

Mothers Guilt

Mother - beautiful creation of GOD.  A name that gives sigh of relief whenever being uttered.

A creator, a nurturer who sacrifices everything for the sake of child. When a child is born, 

every mother feels as if in a court of always being Judged of their nurturing. There is a always 

a guilt, ahh... correct word self guilt of proving everyone right and giving Justification of her 

actions. When a women chooses a career over a child, she is burdened by all the blaims that 

comes from mostly unknown. But she herself knows that there is a guilt within her that 

stays with her all the time of not being by her child. When we talk about a child, it passes

through various stages. First stage is Infant/Toddler. Infant/Toddler is a stage when a 

child needs a  mother the most. This is the time when a child and a mother bonds. Second stage

is when they start going to higher schools or colleges. That time child needs friends much more.

And at last is the stage when they want to settle down in life. At that moment, they needs 

capital (money). The reason of describing the stages is nothing but highlighting a small part 

when a child needs your attention. so, why for such a small span a mother has to sacrifice 

everything. Her body, career, priorities. Her whole identity vanishes. When we will go through 

a women stages She is been through a lot. A constant pressure through family, society often lead most of 

them under depression that they are themselves not aware of.

The reason I Wrote this today was It is indeed a fact Mothers love for her kids are unconditional, unmatched

but one must never loose her identity. Kids are smart. They grow beautifully as per their environment and they

started engaging themselves as per their mothers engagement.

This is to all the mothers- Please love yourself.

Rahma Kazmi

MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS

 When we talk about society, we always try to maintain a perfect equilibrium with our inner thoughts and what we displays on our face. We always know societies are always Judgemental. They always criticitize you of who you are, and always try to change you for what they want to see in you.

There was an incident that happened that changed my life forever. My outlook towards life completely diversed.

It happened when I was in a mall, enjoying with my family and then suddenly I listened to a small baby crying loud. As my usual self, I Approached the mother with a hope that I would be praised for being such a responsible person that could not hold back that childs tear. But with my unusal surprise, I was reverted back with a note that MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS. That sentence still echoes me and then to my surprise I thought it ended up, so I started enjoying my meal. But to my surprise, that mother came up to me and again stated the same note with an exclamation mark. I was sitting there just numb thinking where did I go wrong? Did I make a mistake by giving her a buzz to draw her attention about a weeping baby. Then I was threatened that I would be sent to mental asylam as my approach was unacceptable.

I cried all way back home thinking few notes that would be forever in my mind. Firstly, never teach a Mother how to raise a Kid as she knows it quite well. Secondly, We should actually mind our own business till the time fore front someone asks for help. 

Rahma Kazmi